Listen Up Men: Why Some Women Leave The Men They Truly Love

Going against their feelings: Even if it feels terrible, to the point where they feel like their heart is being torn out of them, women leave men they actually love. It happens because of multiple issues, some situations being more complex than others. Here are some of the most common reasons for women to leave their loved ones.


1) Unavailability: Not being present is probably the most common reason for women to leave. Some men put work, golf, games, TV or fishing before their significant others and that's where the problems start. The worst part about this is that they are not bad men... they just don't realize that they're taking their wife for granted.

2) Not Earning Her: A wife shouldn't be considered property. Men are supposed to work hard to earn the love from women and even harder to keep it. Women want to be able to talk about their dreams and concerns with somebody that will actually listen and care.

3) Passion Missing: Women are attracted to passion. Not only the sexual type of passion but more importantly, the passion for being alive. You need to make sure that you possess it since it is your most attractive asset.

4) Listen before you talk: Another common mistake is to end up having one-sided conversations. What do you feel when you listen to her? Does your mind wander? Try to connect with her through her eyes, keeping eye contact and making her feel that you are really there and deeply interested in her.

5) Not connecting your feelings: Try to be more aware of what you feel when you touch her. Pay attention to those subtle feelings and emotions. Be communicative and mention everything you notice, moment after moment.

6) Little time spent together: You might think you don't have any time for this. But you know what? You do. It only takes 5 minutes of your day to keep that spark. In the end, it isn't about the amount of time and money you spend together. It is the quality of this time that really counts. Make it happen and try to be completely present with that woman you love. Be open and see and listen without judgement.